When sex just feels difficult

Sometimes sex can feel tense and difficult. At these times it can be hard to feel desire, arousal or to climax. Pleasure Solutions is here for you. We listen to your unique situation and help you find ease and acceptance in yourself as a sexual person. Your identity as a sexual person matters to us. We want you to find the sexual story that works for you, and your body. Contact us to find out more, either through a Discovery Session or a Wabi-Sabi Session.

Wabi-Sabi sessions are designed to help you build acceptance for who you are now and to bring all the pieces together that might feel difficult or broken and to find value and inherent beauty in that journey. It’s a process to know ourselves and we can guide you to get where you want to be. We take things at your pace and can be flexible to meet you exactly where you need. Call us or book a session to know more.

In addition, our products are soft, tactile and something you’d actually want to use in a delicate area. We have products for all genitals that enhance your exploration. Explore your body with control using the smallest tip of the Mikazuki and practicing relaxation, building up gradually to inserting further. This can be used in conjunction with or as an alternative to medical dilators. Or you could use the Midori to build confidence in your body first.

One person exploring themselves after surgery had this to say: “The Midori is very soft and gentle on my skin. It stayed in place so that my partner and I were able to be intimate together, kissing and caressing each other. Physically I’m still in a lot of pain but I’m eager to continue to use this product to get my sex life back on track. It’s made me much more relaxed and positive about sex in the future.”